#Girltalk: He wants to stay at my house but he is busy when I visit his

Hi capital, this is Linda. I have been with this guy for almost 3 years now. When we met, he had just separated with his wife and she had taken the 2 children they have together. He used to come to my place and spend their like a month or more. I complained many times about why we didn’t go to his place and why he never allowed me there. He is the type of guy who only contributes to anything financial after you have complained, always claiming to be broke and all. So after advise from a friend, I decided to pack some of my clothes and go to his place, I surprised him and told him am staying for the weekend and he argued with me all night and the next day he said he was going for work, let me tell you this man would go very early in the morning and leave me alone in the home for like 2 days and back only to stay for a few hours and then leave claiming its about work.After a week , I just left and went home and decided to leave this confusion. He is back claiming to be sorry and that it’s the reason he never allowed me home coz he is always busy but he is the same man always staying at my home with no claim of being busy.What’s happening ? Please advise.

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